How to Double Your Pleasure During Sex
Compliment
her on how her breasts feel early in foreplay. According to a UCLA
study, women unhappy with their breast size are 16 times more likely to
hide their breasts during sex—and where's the fun in that? "Comment on
her high responsiveness to stimulation," says Patti Britton, Ph.D., a
clinical sexologist. "It takes the emphasis off of how they look." Then
use these strategies to make the most of your turn-on type.
You're a Small Boobs Man
Men who like small-breasted women—and there are millions of them—are often seeking a more submissive, non-threatening partner, says psychologist Stuart Fischoff. Also, you may get the psychological hint that she’s not trying to compete with other women who have larger breasts, and therefore she’ll be loyal to you. Or maybe the very first girl you had a crush on had small breasts, and if she constructed your earliest example of what’s sexy, her memory may still lead you to find small-breasted women exciting.
Men who like small-breasted women—and there are millions of them—are often seeking a more submissive, non-threatening partner, says psychologist Stuart Fischoff. Also, you may get the psychological hint that she’s not trying to compete with other women who have larger breasts, and therefore she’ll be loyal to you. Or maybe the very first girl you had a crush on had small breasts, and if she constructed your earliest example of what’s sexy, her memory may still lead you to find small-breasted women exciting.
To
maximize your arousal, have her stretch during missionary-position sex,
by straightening her arms above her head. Anything that makes her
appear long and lithe will flatten her breasts and stroke your primal
urges.
You're a Big Boobs Man
Some researchers have theorized that human breasts evolved to be so preciously pendulous because, well, they need to do the work a baboon’s backside does in attracting a mate. “Unlike a baboon, a human woman walks upright and needs to have her sexual attributes up front,” says sex therapist Michael Perry. So, in a sense, her breasts may be a frontal derrière. In fact, the visual qualities of the breasts and the behind aren’t all that different. “Also, men and women look for differentiation in their sex partners,” says Perry. We already bring flat and hard to the bedroom; we need something curvy, supple and bouncy to make us feel complete.
Some researchers have theorized that human breasts evolved to be so preciously pendulous because, well, they need to do the work a baboon’s backside does in attracting a mate. “Unlike a baboon, a human woman walks upright and needs to have her sexual attributes up front,” says sex therapist Michael Perry. So, in a sense, her breasts may be a frontal derrière. In fact, the visual qualities of the breasts and the behind aren’t all that different. “Also, men and women look for differentiation in their sex partners,” says Perry. We already bring flat and hard to the bedroom; we need something curvy, supple and bouncy to make us feel complete.
Try this move: Put her on top so she faces you and let her do the bouncing.
For a fuller experience, have her hold her breasts together and do the
movement thing you’ve seen in the porn movies. Just be gentle and use
plenty of lubricant; she’s not built to handle harsh friction up there.
