How to Make Love to Your Wife or the Woman in Your Life
What a Husband Needs to Know to Make Love to His Wife
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got your attention with the title didn't I? Well I am not going to give
you all the details that you should already know about the physical
mechanics about making love to your wife. What I am going to tell you is
about how to get her in the mood to have you make love to her. Women are not like men. Men can see a Dallas
cheerleader on television or a magazine, some of which I don't need to
remind you of and they can turn into rutting goats. Women are not
opposed to a nice looking guy. I think most women are more inclined to
be turned on by a guy who has at least some clothes on instead of a
naked one. Men are visual, women are more emotional in general.
The first thing you need to know is that women like to be appreciated. They like to be complimented and noticed. You need to let your wife know that she is pretty. You need to let her know that you like her hair, make-up, dress, or smile. You need to be affectionate with her. Women are usually very affectionate. They like to be kissed, hugged and played with. When your wife is standing at the sink preparing dinner, or washing up the dishes, gently put your arms around her and nuzzle her neck. This should be done without expectations of sex. Don't pinch her breasts or butt in a lewd, crude way. If you think that she is receptive to sex, then a gentle caress of her body is acceptable, but do not be vulgar unless this is something that you have previously agreed to.
Men live more in their heads than women do. Remember that even though it is not comfortable or natural for you that it is important to write little notes to your wife. Give her a card spontaneously. A rose for no reason or an unexpected dinner out is a great way to show your love and appreciation of your wife. Women are like flowers, they need to be nurtured, watered, and fed.
Take notice of what she likes. Be interested in what she is passionate about. If she is a writer, an artist, a gardener or a reader, ask her questions about her interests. If she is interested in gardening for example, get her a little something that pertains to her interest in gardening.
If you really want to turn her on, help with the kids. Run the dishwasher, or do a load of laundry. Ask her if she needs any help with anything. There is nothing that will turn a woman or wife on like a husband helping her. Women have a very hard job that can be pretty unrewarding if it is not acknowledged.
Listen to her when she is talking. When you come home from work don't just tell her about your crappy day, or good day, ask her about her day too. Women often do a lot of menial chores at home when their job is stays at home mother. They still like to be appreciated and asked about what they did that day. When they work outside of the home they still have a tendency to be the one who take an interest in their husband's work. Women are by nature caretakers and are more interested in men than men are in them.
As married couples start to grow older together it is even more important to keep the spark alive. Women and men both need to know that they are still attractive to each other. In our society where beauty and youth are so important, it is even more important to let your wife or husband know that they are still attractive and loved. Tell her honestly that she looks nice and that you love her more and more each day.
Remember if you want to get what you want from your wife or woman, you need to give them what they want and need. Not only will you get what you want, you will give them what they want. Not only will you both be happier, you will have a lot more satisfying sex and love life. Lovemaking is not just about the physical act, but it is a spiritual experience that brings your two souls together.
The first thing you need to know is that women like to be appreciated. They like to be complimented and noticed. You need to let your wife know that she is pretty. You need to let her know that you like her hair, make-up, dress, or smile. You need to be affectionate with her. Women are usually very affectionate. They like to be kissed, hugged and played with. When your wife is standing at the sink preparing dinner, or washing up the dishes, gently put your arms around her and nuzzle her neck. This should be done without expectations of sex. Don't pinch her breasts or butt in a lewd, crude way. If you think that she is receptive to sex, then a gentle caress of her body is acceptable, but do not be vulgar unless this is something that you have previously agreed to.
Men live more in their heads than women do. Remember that even though it is not comfortable or natural for you that it is important to write little notes to your wife. Give her a card spontaneously. A rose for no reason or an unexpected dinner out is a great way to show your love and appreciation of your wife. Women are like flowers, they need to be nurtured, watered, and fed.
Take notice of what she likes. Be interested in what she is passionate about. If she is a writer, an artist, a gardener or a reader, ask her questions about her interests. If she is interested in gardening for example, get her a little something that pertains to her interest in gardening.
If you really want to turn her on, help with the kids. Run the dishwasher, or do a load of laundry. Ask her if she needs any help with anything. There is nothing that will turn a woman or wife on like a husband helping her. Women have a very hard job that can be pretty unrewarding if it is not acknowledged.
Listen to her when she is talking. When you come home from work don't just tell her about your crappy day, or good day, ask her about her day too. Women often do a lot of menial chores at home when their job is stays at home mother. They still like to be appreciated and asked about what they did that day. When they work outside of the home they still have a tendency to be the one who take an interest in their husband's work. Women are by nature caretakers and are more interested in men than men are in them.
As married couples start to grow older together it is even more important to keep the spark alive. Women and men both need to know that they are still attractive to each other. In our society where beauty and youth are so important, it is even more important to let your wife or husband know that they are still attractive and loved. Tell her honestly that she looks nice and that you love her more and more each day.
Remember if you want to get what you want from your wife or woman, you need to give them what they want and need. Not only will you get what you want, you will give them what they want. Not only will you both be happier, you will have a lot more satisfying sex and love life. Lovemaking is not just about the physical act, but it is a spiritual experience that brings your two souls together.
